|Sunset over the bay.|
In today's news, the word too often is used in reference to warfare.
There's another, more peaceful and personal meaning of the word: a pulling back, a temporary withdrawal from day-to-day life. (I look at the word and see "re-treat," as in doing something good for yourself -- again.)
The women's group at my church organizes a retreat every year, and a few weekends ago about 50 of us -- ranging in age from 8 months to 90-plus years -- headed to Harvey Cedars, on Long Beach Island. The retreat theme varies every year, but the goal is the same: to make time to do whatever it is that fills our souls.
I love the ever-changing flow of the weekend. We gather all of us together, and spin off into small groups. Sometimes two people cross paths and connect; sometimes you go solo.
|You can follow your own path.|
While I absolutely love the company of women, I do crave that time alone. The retreat gave time and space for both.
In a memorable act of togetherness, we trekked down to the beach to watch the moon rise on Saturday. We had heard the full moon would be spectacular that night, a so-called "supermoon"* that happens about once every 18 years.
We reached the beach about 15 minutes before moonrise, and as the wind picked up and the temperature dropped, some may have wondered if it was worth the trip.
We huddled together and looked out. Blue sky met deep blue sea at the horizon. Then came a small curve of orange, rising slowly. The curve eventually became a half-circle, and finally a luminous full moon, perched on the water. Within minutes it was high enough in the sky to reflect onto the water's edge. Moon above and moon below. Quite a sight.
Earlier in the day I had made a solitary pilgrimage to the ocean. At one point I stopped and just listened to the deep, constant thrumming of the wind. It felt … eternal, like the waves breaking at my feet.
The weekend was such a gift, and I give thanks.
* Technical terms: The "supermoon" phenomenon occurs when the full moon coincides with "perigee," the point in the moon's orbit when it comes closest to Earth. On March 19, the full moon and perigee were less than one hour apart, a rare occurrence, according to a NASA website.
|A fellow beach traveler left tracks.|
|Zebra stripes in the sand.|
|Tufted grass by the bay.|